(Galatians 6:2). Christians are not self-serving. Of course, the human heart is naturally selfish, but the disciple of Jesus seeks to love him and, therefore, to love others, including the isolated believer.
If you love your partner, then you want them to do whatever makes them happy and create a supportive environment. The bonus part is that when they work on their dreams, it's a time for you also to do what you love.
Love as many may say; Is blind. Sometimes, we do get it wrong by simply getting attached to people with little caring, love, and a disguise attitude coming from them at an initial.
Today, it's a dangerous difference; now, needless controversies trail the propriety and piety of tithing, dragging the christaindom to the neighbourhood of querulous themes.