It would be best if you put in the work. You are responsible for how life turns out. It is your sole responsibility to make choices and decisions to achieve the things you want.
One day, my mother came to the school and my friends were surprised to know that she is my mother. She was nearly mobbed by the pupils who took turns to take pictures with her.
And you know what's wrong with every last one of them? They make it way too hard! Having a nice, normal conversation with a beautiful woman (and hopefully leaving with her contact info) is not the same as Sudoku.
It subtly shifts the responsibility of their life decisions and actions onto you. If things go wrong or sacrifices are made, you might be positioned as the one accountable for these choices.
Nicknamed The White Crow, he gained fame for his impressive turns and leaps and for being compared to the great Vaslav Nijinsky. Back in the '80s, the Russian choreographer bought an island in Li Galli near Amalfi Coast in Italy.