It's so easy to believe that some people lead these perfect lives and that we all have to set the same expectations for ourselves. Growing up, I was constantly compared to other people by the people I love.
They have two daughters together, Lola and Roxanne, who he says he "can't stand to be apart from". In his book, Ian says: "I didn't set out for it to be like that.
It's a statement that sets you apart, making you feel unique and special. This phrase plays into the natural human longing to be seen as distinct and different from others.
They never give me that role to play but I did one that came out fine - Love after Love. It was with the late Justus Esiri. Have you ever kissed in a movie? No. Never!
Apart from Bali-style villas, it also has private pools. The whole place is reportedly running on 90% renewable energy from solar panels and wind turbines.