She wrote:
Hello every one, am new here, I hope I can get advice and answer to my confusion and challenge
I been dating my man for almost 2 years, Am Nigerian he's german, he was open to me from beginning about having some infertility issue, he opened up after we had sex unprotected one day and i was worried about him getting a pill because it happened in his country.
He told me not to worry that he can't father a child 90% so since then we been doing it unprotected and I never missed my period for a day, fast forward to after a year plus I missed my period after we spend my birthday together, being that i never cheated, I msg him asking him on scale of 1 to 100 how sure he is that he can't father a child, he said 90%, I waited for another week still nothing so i did test and behold am pregnant, he was excited and insisted I must keep it as he never got any woman pregnant and it might be his only chance, I was troubled, always scared of 9 months, I hate hospital and all that challenges that come with pregnant.
I tried to convince him so we get rid of it but he refused and promised to be there for me.
Now 7 months into the pregnancy his behavior changed, from beginning he doesn't pay for everything i need, hospital bills etc, I do most things on my own cos i felt he's holding back cos he's in doubt the baby is his, now flashback to wen i took in he confessed to me how he been going to sm special church in mountain that's known for helping pple with his issue, prolly God heard his prayer, suddenly he changed, we agreed to get married so my family will get off my neck etc but now he's giving me conditions, prenup and DNA after baby is born.
I have no issue with any of that but how he always bring it up, I am so hurt, I cry daily cos am � sure baby is his, only asked him to support fully as he promised till baby is born but his family and friends discouraging him, now will it be wicked of me to cut him off have my baby send him a pic, have him do DNA then deny him right to own him?? Cos i don't think i all ever forget how he treated me the time i needed him most.
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